Congratulations on your engagement! After the excitement of saying “yes” settles in, it’s time to think about the next steps. While planning a wedding can feel like a huge task, breaking it down into manageable steps will help you stay organized and enjoy the process. Here’s a guide to help you navigate what to do next:
Take a Moment to Celebrate
Before jumping into wedding planning, take some time to enjoy being engaged. Celebrate the moment with your partner—whether it’s a quiet dinner or a fun engagement party with family and friends. This is your time to soak in the excitement before the planning begins.
Set a Date
One of the first decisions you’ll need to make is when to tie the knot. While some couples have a clear idea right away, others may need to consider the season, availability of venues, and family schedules. Setting a general timeframe helps to guide the rest of your planning.
Create a Wedding Budget
Discuss your budget with your partner and any family members who may be contributing. A clear budget will help you prioritize your spending and keep you grounded when making decisions. Factor in big-ticket items like the venue, catering, and photographer, but also remember to include smaller details like flowers, favors, and attire.
Start Researching Venues
The venue is often the first big decision couples make. Whether you’re dreaming of a beach wedding, a rustic barn, or a grand ballroom, it’s important to start researching and booking your venue early. Popular venues can book up well in advance, so securing your location is key.
Build Your Wedding Planning Team
From a wedding planner to a photographer and florist, you’ll want to start thinking about who will help bring your vision to life. If you’re hiring a wedding planner, now’s the time to reach out and discuss your ideas. If you’re doing it yourself, start compiling a list of trusted vendors and recommendations.
Create a Wedding Vision
Begin thinking about the kind of wedding you want—formal, casual, themed, or traditional? Pinterest, wedding blogs, and social media can be great sources of inspiration, but try not to get overwhelmed. Focus on what feels true to you and your partner.
The journey from engagement to wedding can be a whirlwind, but remember, the planning process is just as important as the big day. By taking it one step at a time, you can enjoy the excitement and build the wedding of your dreams!